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Re: how do you find love?

7/11/2003 6:42 PM
Sleebo_The_Beebo	Re: how do you find love? In response to: "By chance, and by patience." No way. Dating and chasing women is a directed purpose. If you leave it to chance then you'll never get married. Forget patience. Start getting impatient with your life and take matters into your own hands and make things happen. You are the master of your destiny. Don't leave it to something silly like chance. Lot's of good comments so far. I'd add: Get involved with recreational activities that involve women, assuming you are a man. Co-ed volly ball, roller-blading through the park, and bicycling come to mind as some examples. Make it a point to be friendly and smile. If they don't smile back, it's their problem, not yours -- and don't forget that. I'm convinced that some people have a harder time with women because of cronic depression which in turn causes them to appear to be less exciting and less socialable then others. I'm not an expert on these things but feel that a good mind and brain helps you with the ability to engage in conversation with women. If you stumble through your words when dealing with women, then consider vitamin therapy directed at combating depression. People will say I'm nuts when I say this but so what. Keep yourself healthy physically and mentally and you will have an edge with the ladies. Stay off drugs because that will only make matters worse. I went into the anti-depression talk mainly because you reported having some suicidal inclinations. Most suicides result from despair which is a common trait of depression. Maybe a qualified professional could help you, although I feel strongly that most psycholgists and psychiatrists preach bunk in my opinion. In other words, choose your therapist carefully. You can always tell a good therapist when you get immediate results after the first session. And the best therapist is the Lord Jesus Christ. Maybe you already know that, but if you don't, then reaching out for the Lord can do wonders.

7/11/2003 6:42 PM

Sleebo_The_Beebo

Re: how do you find love?

In response to:

"By chance, and by patience."

No way. Dating and chasing women is a directed purpose. If you leave it to chance then you'll never get married. Forget patience. Start getting impatient with your life and take matters into your own hands and make things happen. You are the master of your destiny. Don't leave it to something silly like chance.

Lot's of good comments so far. I'd add:

Get involved with recreational activities that involve women, assuming you are a man. Co-ed volly ball, roller-blading through the park, and bicycling come to mind as some examples. Make it a point to be friendly and smile. If they don't smile back, it's their problem, not yours -- and don't forget that.

I'm convinced that some people have a harder time with women because of cronic depression which in turn causes them to appear to be less exciting and less socialable then others. I'm not an expert on these things but feel that a good mind and brain helps you with the ability to engage in conversation with women.

If you stumble through your words when dealing with women, then consider vitamin therapy directed at combating depression. People will say I'm nuts when I say this but so what. Keep yourself healthy physically and mentally and you will have an edge with the ladies. Stay off drugs because that will only make matters worse.

I went into the anti-depression talk mainly because you reported having some suicidal inclinations. Most suicides result from despair which is a common trait of depression. Maybe a qualified professional could help you, although I feel strongly that most psycholgists and psychiatrists preach bunk in my opinion. In other words, choose your therapist carefully. You can always tell a good therapist when you get immediate results after the first session.

And the best therapist is the Lord Jesus Christ. Maybe you already know that, but if you don't, then reaching out for the Lord can do wonders.

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Stephen Giles Re: by chance and by patience -- 7/11/2003 8:52 PM